From Mom 2/7/2008 - HOMECOMING PLANS

Dear Family,

We just got off the phone with the mission secretary. We are leaving Germany three days early. We will be leaving on Monday, March 3 and will arrive in Salt Lake at 6:50 P.M that evening. Right now we don’t know what airline or what flight number or anything else but will be receiving a letter with all this information from the mission office soon. We’ll let you know as soon as we know more.

There are five more missionaries coming from the MTC in Preston, England that week. That was a surprise to Pres. Rakow! In order to make room for these new missionaries he’s sending four Elders and us home a few days early. Later that week more new missionaries will arrive from the MTC in Provo. What a task a mission president has accommodating everyone!

I hope this doesn’t mess everyone’s plans up too much. We’ll probably stay in Utah a couple of days then come home. I hope the roads are better by then!

We have just three more full weeks in Germany and we have a full schedule. It will go by so quickly. There are beginning to be lots of “lasts”. It’s a time of mixed emotions but we’re excited to be going home.

We’ll let you know more as soon as we know more.

Much love,
Mom

From Mom 2/6/2008

Dear Family,

Today, (Wednesday) has been a day of cancelled appointments! That is so frustrating! Dad has talked to several people on the phone so it hasn’t been an entirely wasted day. While he was on the phone, I did laundry. It’s amazing how many clothes just two people go through in a week. We did manage to see the sister we visit in the rest home. She always seems so happy to have us come and cries when we leave-----or maybe she’s crying because of how we sound when we sing to her! Whatever, it’s always a good feeling to visit her and see her smile. Then we had our institute class tonight. Dad does a good job. He really knows his scriptures. The stories from the Old Testament are interesting. There are so many things to be learned from the scriptures.

Today got up to 48*. Dad actually took off his sweater from under his suit coat because he was too warm. Then we look at the weather most of you are having-----snow in Idaho and Utah, tornadoes in Tennessee and I don’t know what in Oklahoma but it looks like we’re the lucky ones right now. Some of the trees across the street from us are starting to turn green. It was the same last year. By the end of February a lot of the spring flowers were out. They don’t need the snow for water like we do in the west. It rains nearly every night. We are enjoying this weather. If we can’t have snow in winter, we might as well enjoy the warm weather we’re having.

The funeral for President Hinckley was so wonderful. We went to the church on Saturday and saw it live and they were going to do a rebroadcast on Sunday afternoon. We had a six o’clock appointment but nothing between church and then so we went over to the church and watched it again. We must have been inspired to go because Tim Palmer came and was very touched by the things he saw and heard. He was in church that morning and even bore his testimony during testimony meeting. He seems so committed right now to making the changes in his life he needs to make to find the happiness and peace of mind he’s looking for. After church, he stayed and talked to Dad for almost two hours. We had picked up Brother and Sister Meyers as Brother Meyers fell in hurt his shoulder and can’t drive right now. I took them home and came back and Tim and Dad were still talking. But it was all good and Tim really opened his heart to Dad. He is such a nice guy. People in the ward were very friendly to him and he likes the people he’s met.

Back to the funeral. I loved and admired President Hinckley so much and really dreaded the time he would no longer be with us. I even worried if I would be able to accept someone else as our prophet but as I was watching and listening to President Monson, as he conducted the graveside service, I had such a positive feeling come over me and any doubt completely left. I had such a feeling of love and respect for President Monson and I know he is the one who is supposed to be leading our church at this time. It goes without saying that the people here are thrilled about President Uchtdorf’s new calling. We were feeling bad that we would have to miss the press conference as it would be being broadcast during the time we would be having Family Home Evening. Then we had a brilliant idea----let’s have Family Home Evening at our place tonight! Dad went over to the church and picked everyone up and they got here about 5 minutes before the broadcast started. One of the Elders serving here right now is a native German and of course, the two young men who come regularly are from here and when it was announced that Elder Uchtdorf was the new counselor, it was like being at a football game and our team had made a touchdown!! It was so fun to share that experience with those young people. I had made poppy seed bread and we had apples and bananas and a variety of juices to go with it. They always like the food part of FHE and I like preparing it for them. I’m going to miss this part of our mission.

We had been asked by a part-member family we have been working with to come to lunch yesterday (Tuesday) and then go Fasching parade with them. Fasching is a big thing here in Germany. School lets out for a week. Everyone dresses up in all kinds of costumes and there are parades everywhere in the country. The big parade in Wurzburg was Sunday afternoon but this one was in a small town not far from here. When I took Brother and Sister Meyer home after church on Sunday, there were lots of people dressed in lots of different kinds of costumes headed downtown to watch the parade. I can’t get a clear explanation from anyone what the significance of this celebration is only that it’s a week they can do anything they want and act anyway they want and then when it’s over, they begin their 40 day “fast” before Easter and can be forgiven of all the wrong things they’ve done. It always comes 40 days before Easter so the time they celebrate varies from year to year. Some say it kind of goes along with Mardi Gras in New Orleans. At the end of Fashing week, they “burn the witches” at midnight in the center of town. Sounds a bit odd to me but the people here really get into it. Since right after Christmas there have been costumes in every store and people getting ready for this celebration. It was kind of fun but sad at the same time. There was a lot of drinking going on and people got really loud and obnoxious. I was amazed at how many young people were drinking. The people we were with said that on the day of the parade there are stores that sell liquor to anyone of any age and it showed yesterday. It wasn’t a real spiritual experience but another lesson about some of the German traditions.

I think I mentioned last week that the Meng’s are going to Frankfurt. We went out to dinner with them on Friday-----we have gone to dinner with them a lot! It was sad saying goodbye to them. I’m glad they live in Rigby. We can stay in touch. The new couple that took their place is from Orem. Sister Koralowski called tonight and is feeling a bit overwhelmed with everything. Tomorrow is P-day and they are coming over with the Elders to spend the day. She said she has a million questions. I hope we can give them some help and encouragement. How well I remember those first few weeks! You feel like you’ve been thrown into a lions den! It’s hard not knowing your way around the city and not knowing anyone very well. You feel pretty helpless and then there’s the “missing the family” on top of that. They seem like really nice people-----a little more reserved than the Mengs are but very nice anyway. The only time we’ve been around them was at our district meeting on Monday. They were late getting there because they got lost and we had to leave as soon as it was over to get back for an appointment so it will be good to have some time to get better acquainted with them tomorrow.

Tomorrow night we have another appointment with David Stoppell. I think Dad mentioned him in his letter. He has been totally inactive for about 15 years but since we have been visiting him, he says he can’t describe the feelings he is having but feels like he did right after he was baptized. He has never understood why prayer was necessary because he says our Heavenly Father already knows what we need, why do we have to ask? Dad pointed out to him that maybe it would be a good idea to ask our Heavenly Father what He needs from us and then ask for some help. He had never thought of that but committed to pray every day this week. We’re looking forward to our time with him. Then on Saturday we will start teaching a new contact. This lady has been to church with one of her friends for three weeks in a row. Sunday she told us she would like us to come and start teaching her about the church. She is such a nice person and Sister Lauber, her member friend, is a wonderful person. We will be teaching at Sister Lauber’s home. It’s great teaching when a member is present. We’re looking forward to that too.

I can’t believe I’ve left this till last. Probably the most exciting part of this week was seeing Petra. We were pulling into a parking lot at a store and I looked over and saw this woman putting groceries in her trunk. I mentioned to Dad that she sure looked a lot like Petra and then we both realized that it WAS Petra. We hurried and parked and walked toward her. She didn’t see us and we called out her name but I guess she didn’t hear us because she didn’t look our direction. I was beginning to think that she had seen us and didn’t want to talk to us but I called a little louder and she looked at us and broke into a big smile. As we walked to her, she put her arms around me and gave me a big hug. Both of us shed some tears. She’s just really struggling right now and says she really doesn’t know why she hasn’t come back to church. She did tell us that she thought we would be mad at her for not coming and that’s why she didn’t want to see us. We assured her that we loved her and that we would love her if she never came to church again. I think she knew we meant it. She asked how much longer we would be here and we told her one more month and she said she would be to church before we left. Than Monday, the 4th, was the anniversary of her baptism. We got a beautiful bouquet of flowers and took to her. When we gave them to her, she asked us what they were for and we told her it was a year ago that day that she had been baptized. She had forgotten the date but seemed very touched that we had remembered her. We didn’t have time to stay long but enjoyed our short visit and had some good laughs----just like old times. She told us again that she would see us at church sometime before we left. There were so many “highlights” of the week but this was way up there on top. It was so good to see her and talk to her again.

It’s late. Dad has already gone to bed. I’m not sure what we’re doing tomorrow. Our district leader called and said he thought it would be good to have a district activity for P-day so they are coming over here with the new couple. He said he wanted to see the castle. Climbing up there is a good workout. Anyway, I thought I had better get this written tonight. Time is ticking away----quickly. Seems like we just had P-day!

Take care and know that we love you. You’re always in our thoughts and prayers.

Much love,
Mom

From Dad 2/3/2008

Good morning everyone,

Mom is such an inspiration. We attended live by satellite the funeral for President Hinckley. Then mom listened to it on the internet. And yesterday we watched it again in its entirety at the rebroadcast at the Church. The last hour showing his life was new for us. Just as the leaders of the Church were beginning to leave the cemetery Tim Palmer walked in. It was 5PM our time. We were happily surprised. It all started with our meeting with him on Thursday. In our previous discussions there have always been feelings of holding back, of not being ready or wanting to commit himself to keeping the commandments. Wednesday afternoon late he called to confirm we were still coming on Thursday. He said he needed to make a change in his life that the time had come for no looking back. Thursday he shared the feeling he no longer had any reservation about any of the commandments. He was now prepared in his heart to be loyal and faithful.
Sunday was the mother of their three children’s birthday. He was to Church and on time. He said as he was driving to Church he kept asking himself, “Why am I doing this?” There was so much sickness in the ward yesterday there were not enough people to conduct primary and hold all of the other activities. Tim sat and talked for two hours at his request. We said if he comes next Sunday that will be the key. Three times in a row begins to establish any habit – good or bad. We are excited.

We began working reading in the Book of Mormon with two Iraqi’s on Friday. They are really good and amazingly open people. There was no reservation about reading in German and then for them to turn around and read in the first chapter in Arabic to know what they are reading about. If this continues three weeks in a row we will see what the new couple will choose to do. These people are very family oriented and rarely do anything unless there are at least two or three of them together. It was a fun time.

We had an n awesome experience with David Stoppel on Saturday on the phone. We called to make an appointment. He had two of his three children with him for the weekend and yet was in no hurry to end the conversation. We made an assignment to pray every day for a few seconds only for the few days before our coming appointment. The last time we were together a few weeks ago we knelt and he said the prayer in Russian. We talked about how our Father in Heaven knows everything. He said, “That’s the point. He doesn’t need us to pray because He already knows what we need and want.” We discussed he was right. There is a second part to prayer. It is a time the Lord can teach us and give us answers to questions and challenges we face day to day. David broke in an said, “I am feeling something I haven’t felt for almost 20 years when I was first baptized. It is almost like I am on fire!” What better way is there to describe the presence of the Spirit bearing witness to us that what we are doing, what we are feeling is true? David asked if we could come sooner than next weekend. We set a new time. We talked about President Hinckley’s funeral and helped him walk through the steps so he could listen in Russian later that evening. The Lord is busy at work. We feel His Spirit working with people and we love it.

We look forward to an awesome family gathering the weekend of Cathy’s birthday. It should be one fantastic birthday party! We look forward to answering questions about our mission and sharing experiences. Mom is quick to emphasize this is no official report. As you know, “official reports” have been done away in the Church. Missionaries are invited to speak in sacrament meeting and are given a topic and an opportunity to share a couple of missionary experiences. We will love the opportunity on that weekend to be with family. We know there will be fun and lots of food. We hope to share some of the feelings we have been blessed to have during this time away from all of you.

Have a great week. Today the new First Presidency in the Church will be announced and we are excited to learn more about that. It will be during our family home evening and we will miss it but will catch the news later. We love you guys.
The gospel of Jesus Christ is true.

Love always,


Dad

From Mom 1/31/2008

Dear Family,

I sat down at the computer last night to write this letter but couldn’t get my mind to work well enough to think of what to write. Wednesday was Zone Conference and those days just wear us clear out. We leave here at 7:30 AM and get back home between 6:30 and 7 PM. I don’t know how just sitting for that long can make you so tired, but it does. It was out last zone conference. The missionaries who have just arrived and those who will be going home in the next five weeks are asked to speak briefly. That was an emotional time. I had no idea it would be so hard thinking about leaving. We love our association with the other missionaries and with President and Sister Rakow and will miss these conferences. They are always well planned and full of good information that gives us all a spiritual boost. The theme for this conference was how the Book of Mormon is a second witness for Christ. President Rakow gave a wonderful talk at the close of the conference having us read several scriptures that emphasized the theme. He has such a command of the scriptures and a wonderful way of saying things that make them very much alive and a part of our lives. We will always be grateful for the privilege of having him for our mission president. He was a bishop at a very young age, has been a stake president and an area seventy and is a successful business man on top of all that. He will finish his time as mission president the end of June and he and Sister Rakow already have their plane tickets for their first Munich Germany/Austria mission reunion in October. We are looking forward to that. Some of the couples we have known will be home by then and it will be good to see the young elders and sisters we have worked with. We’ve met so many wonderful people---- members, non-member, inactive members and missionaries. How grateful we are for our association with them.

Sunday and Monday were awesome days. Sunday we had four less-active members we have worked with to church. The Elders had a new investigator there too. Then Monday evening, the elders had another investigator to Family Home Evening. I think we get as excited about the people the Elders work with as we do about the ones we work with. They are all children of our Heavenly Father and it’s a wonderful experience seeing what the gospel does for them. The young woman who came to FHE is from China------that big city that starts with a B that I don’t know how to spell. She is finishing her research and getting ready to write her paper for her degree in International Business (I think). Anyway, she is really a sharp young woman. She speaks very good English and German besides her native language. She had her Chinese Book of Mormon with her. It was fascinating to look at all those words that didn’t contain the usual alphabet letters that we are used to seeing. Our lesson ended up being a missionary lesson instead of a conference talk but that was good. She explained some of their religious traditions. Reincarnation is very much a part of their culture. It is so strange to hear people talk about being some kind of animal before they were born and then their spirit going back into that animal when they die. Where do people come up with such ideas? It’s “Tradition”. But she admitted that she likes the idea of being a spirit child of our Heavenly Father before we were born and wants to talk about that some more. She had never heard the song, “I Am a Child of God”. We sang it for our closing song and she was really touched by the words. After stuffing ourselves on zucchini brownies, we played a few rounds of Scum. She had never played it but ended up winning two of the three games. She lives fairly close to us so we gave her a ride home and she said she would see us in church on Sunday. If she is really converted to the gospel, she would be a great help to the missionaries. She has a dynamic personality.

When we received the news about President Hinckley, I was shocked for awhile and then had such a peaceful feeling knowing that he was with his sweet wife again. I guess we, like most people, thought he would be around forever. What a blessing that he was able to work right up to the very end. He would have been so miserable if he couldn’t work! And what a wonderful reunion with his wife, parents and many close associates. His mother died when he was very young. What a privilege for him to be with her again too. It reminded me so much of the day Grandpa Risenmay (my father) passed away. As you all know, he had been married before he married Grandma Risenmay. His wife died during childbirth. They had also lost four babies in infancy to what could have been prevented in this day and age. He and your Grandma Risenmay also lost a baby. I remember so well the morning he passed away. He had had a massive stroke and never regained consciousness and was in the hospital which at that time was right next to the temple. After he passed away, Grandma and I were walking over to her house. Neither one of us has hardly said a word. Our hearts were full. Then Grandma said, “Can you just imagine the wonderful reunion that is going on in heaven right now.” There was not a trace of feeling sorry for herself because Grandpa had died, but a genuine happiness for him to be with his first wife and those children they had lost. Grandpa’s father had died when he was young and he had missed him so much all his life. That too would be part of that wonderful reunion. How thankful we should all be for this knowledge and the peace it can bring to our lives knowing that we can be together again.

Our good friends, Elder and Sister Meng, who are from Rigby and have been in our district since they got here in July, have been transferred. They got transferred clear out of our mission!! They will be in Frankfurt and will be in charge of the finances for the CES program in the Central Europe area. They have been in training all this week. They called last night and are feeling quite overwhelmed with their new assignment but are excited at the same time. They will be traveling to a lot of countries. Besides taking care of all the finances, they have been trained to know how an Outreach Center is supposed to be set up and function and will be helping to do that. They both love to travel. Elder Meng was so hoping he could spend some time in Stuttgart while he was here and was really disappointed when Stuttgart was taken out of our mission and put in the Swiss mission. He spent most of his time on his first mission in that area. Now he will be able to spend time in Stuttgart------and Poland, and Romania, and Austria and lots of other places. I have to admit that I envy them a little bit. They are serving a 23 month mission and still have nearly 18 months left so they have many wonderful experiences ahead of them. We will miss them. They leave Monday morning and by that afternoon a new couple from Orem will be there to take their place. Last week we got a new Elder here in Wurzburg and he found out at Zone Conference that this couple that is coming is from his home ward in Orem. Small world, isn’t it?

We found out that the couple that will replace us is from Casell, Germany which is about a three hour drive from here. They will arrive in Wurzburg on the 29th. They will stay in a hotel until we leave the morning of the 5th of March then will move into this apartment. We are to show them around and have them meet the people we are working with and where the church is and where the grocery stores are, etc. etc. etc. It will be good to have some native Germans here as by the end of June, there will be no more Americans in this ward. Our bishop right now is from Casell. We don’t know the couples name but wouldn’t that be great if Bishop Seeger knew them? They will be such a help to this ward. There is one thing that is consistent and that is change, especially when you are a missionary.

We were happy to hear from our Relief Society President that she and Bishop Seeger’s wife had a nice visit with Petra. They called and asked if they could come by and she gave them permission to------a first since September. She just doesn’t feel like she can afford to pay tithing and feels embarrassed to have Dad and I see her because she doesn’t feel like she is doing what she promised us she would do so that’s why she asked us to not come any more and why she quit coming to church. She told these sisters that she really misses going to church and misses the people there. They encouraged her to come anyway and it sounds like she may do that----after we leave. They asked her if they could come again and she told them she would be looking forward to their visit. Monday will be one year since she was baptized. We’re going to take her some flowers as a remembrance of that special day. If she won’t invite us in, we’ll leave them at the door. I hope she will come around again. She is such an awesome person.

We will be watching President Hinckley’s funeral at the church Saturday evening at 7 o’clock. We could watch it on the internet but it’s so nice to watch it on a big screen. We’re picking up Brother and Sister Meyer. Brother Meyer hurt his arm and can’t drive for awhile so we’ll take them with us. What a privilege it has been to have President Hinckley lead the church for all these years. Isn’t it amazing to read about things that have happened under his leadership? What a wonderful man.

It’s fun thinking that 5 weeks from today we’ll be waking up in Utah. Wow!! I don’t know where January went! Time is flying and we have a lot of people we still want to see. We also have lots of sorting out and discarding so we can get everything in our suitcases. We’ll be sending some things home by mail so when the boxes come, just put them in our room downstairs. We keep hearing about the wild weather you’re still having in Idaho and Utah. This will be a winter you won’t soon forget. I hope there’s lots of water in all that snow. We pray every day for your safety with all the snow. Know that we pray for all of you every day and we love you very much.

Much love,
Mom